Potty training and mouthing are two of the biggest issues that people will bring up in puppy class. So let’s get right to it. Puppies need to go outside after they wake up, after they eat, after they drink, after they chew, after they play, after they nap. The rule of thumb then is After Everything. Put puppy on leash and go out into the yard where you would like puppy to eliminate and then just wait 2-3 minutes. If puppy is not successful, come back inside and contain puppy for a few minutes in his crate. Then go out and try again. Keep this up until puppy eliminates and praise him after he has finished. Use a calm, kind, positive voice and perhaps a gently stroke down puppy’s back for the success rather than a jump up and down hurray kind of praise (which I would actually normally recommend and use for any other type of behavioural success) and I mention expressing the praise after puppy has done the job so that you don’t interrupt the manoeuvre mid-stream thereby setting puppy up for an accident after returning to the house. Your pup cannot physically hold his urine for longer than the number of hours that he is in months old, plus one hour. Example – a two month old puppy will need to be given the opportunity to urinate at least every 3 hours (if contained in a crate), otherwise you are back to AFTER EVERYTHING or at least every 1/2 hour. Having said this, please make arrangements for your puppy to have regular potty breaks throughout the day. This may mean having a neighbour or possibly a pet sitter come in to do this. It is the humane, right thing to do and it will increase your chances of having a puppy who is potty trained quickly.
A few very important things here, puppy has to be contained when you return to the house if he was not successful or you will likely have an accident in the house and you must keep taking him out “after” whatever activity he just completed until he is successfully potty trained, which means that he is consistently “asking” to go out (this may just simply going to the usual exit door, so keep any eye on him) and has not had an accident for at least one full month. Going forward there may be the odd accident after your pup appears to be potty trained. This is frustrating from the human’s perspective, but not a failure of the potty training. It is likely just a one off, so don’t lose heart it is no different than a child who after being potty trained has the occassional accident, just keep plugging along.
I suggest that you always take puppy out on leash for potty training and that once you arrive at the spot you would like your dog to use as a toilet area that you simply stand and wait for the success. If you walk around with your puppy while waiting for him to “get busy” he will quickly learn that if he waits to do his business he gets a longer walk.
Lastly, your puppy may urinate when meeting new people or going new places or even when you come home after being at work. This is a normal behaviour and has everything to do with excitement, lack of physical muscle control of the urinary tract muscles and mental immaturaty. As your pup gets older this behaviour will reduce and ultimately vanish. Please do not punish your dog for this behaviour or for having any type of an accident, punishment will not reduce this behaviour and in fact may increase it. Additionally you will be 1) causing fear in your dog, fear of you 2) your dog may still potty in the house, just not in front of you.
When a dog potties in the house, it is for two reasons 1) he doesn’t know better 2) he can’t physically and or mentally help it. It is your job to teach him and assist him in being successful and it is your fault if he has an accident. Puppies who are not potty trained must be supervised and the After Everything rule strictly adhered to until the pup is house trained.
Onto mouthing, which puppies love to do. Dogs find out about their world with their noses and mouths. Fortunately their noses don’t cause damage but
their mouths certainly can. When a puppy is aroused such as in play is usually when the mouthing occurs. It does have a lot to do with exploring
and also teething. The level of arousal can increase the intensity of the bite. We do want puppies to learn bit inhibition, but not at the sake of our
hands. Children are often the natural target of the mouthing partly because they are very exciting to puppy in and of themselves, so the puppy’s excitement level will just naturally start to elevate when children run, play, scream and yell as they will do, plus kids are drawn to the puppy and want to play with them.
Let’s STOP right here! Please NEVER leave your puppy unsupervised with a child, EVER!!! I cannot state this strongly enough. If you are not directly supervising puppy, ie in the room looking at him whatever he is doing, he must be contained in his pen or kennel. Unsupervised puppies get into trouble it’s that simple. Supervised puppies and children can be directed towards appropriate play, behaviour and potty training, unsupervised puppies and children get into trouble.
Encourage the child to be 1) gentle 2) respectful 3) appropriate with the puppy. Use toys to play with instead of hands. The adult can encourage the pup to chew on the toy, while the child is stroking the puppy. Additionally children should be sitting when engaging with the puppy. If puppy’s teeth touch human hands get up and walk away from puppy. Wait 30 seconds, totally ignoring puppy, don’t look at him, talk or play. After 30 seconds resume play, if teeth touching skin happens again, do another 30 second time out totally ignoring puppy. Try a 3rd time to play. If teeth touch skin a 3rd time, without ANY emotion, NONE whatsoever, lead puppy to his crate, close the door and walk away, totally away, leave the room. No matter how much noise puppy makes ignore him, after 30 seconds go back and let him out, but only if he is calm. If he is whining or crying, simply wait until he stops before you begin to let him out, keep in mind that he must still leave the kennel with your OK or release cue as described in Part 2 of this blog on puppies. He can have something to chew on in his crate, remember this is just containment for a pup who is over the top and unable to control himself, so to keep everyone safe, including puppy and to bring down his arousal level, he is being crated.
I have found that very often, if walking away from your pup (which is removing the puppy’s reward, you) doesn’t stop the behaviour, then it is very likely the pup is tired and after crating him, you will likely find that he falls asleep. But again, don’t use the crate constantly and don’t ruin the good association with the crate by roughly or angrily putting puppy in it. Be calm, it’s just a quiet time out.
For an adult you can let puppy go a bit further than just teeth touching skin before ignoring him and walking away, but it should still not be enough of a bite that it is extremely painful or draw blood, we want puppy to know that it’s not acceptable bite pressure before it hits that point. For a child, teach
them to walk away with any touch of teeth to skin at all. And remember you are supervising at all times and crating puppy if it gets to round 3 (never let a child do this) or if when you walk away puppy is continuing to mouth the child or you during the 30 second ignore period. That then would be an automatic kennel time out whether on round 1 or 2.
Now children do need to run and play whether or not they have a puppy, so when it is time for children to be excited and aroused in play, put puppy away in the crate or exercise pen for a nap or independent play with a toy or better yet a yummy food filled Kong or other food dispensing toy or keep puppy with you (perhaps tethered to your waist). If your puppy is not contained in some way, while your child is running and playing, the pup will follow excitedly and likely nip at and/or scratch your child because that is how puppies play. So do your child a favour, as well as your pup and yourself and allow puppy free time for your child by containing your pup as well as supervised, CALM, play time between your pup and your child, that way everyone will be safe and happy.
You must always have appropriate toys for puppy to chew on, Nyla bones, Kongs (especially with wet kibble, left overs, peanut butter etc and then frozen, which helps with teething). Use caution with bones and especially rawhide which you may want to rethink giving puppy at all due to it’s propensity to get wet and gooey and easily slip down puppy’s throat blocking the airway. Again supervision is the key when puppy is chewing in order to avoid injuries.
When a toy starts to wear down, throw it out. If your puppy does not have appropriate chew toys, or is not repeatedly redirected to appropriate chew toys when he is chewing on an illegal item, then he will cause damage to your belongings because he is a dog and dogs need to chew, so chewing your stuff is not the dog’s fault.
Lastly for today I want to talk about the Tug game. Flat out, I like it. I like to play it with my dogs. But it has rules, very strict rules that must be adhered to in no uncertain terms. 1) The tug toy belongs to you and only comes out when you are initiating the game. 2) You start and end the game 3) When you say out, puppy must release it (we will talk about OUT, GIVE or DROP IT tomorrow) 4) If teeth touch skin, then the game is over,toy goes away. 5) It’s ok if the dog sometimes wins 6) Children never, ever play this game with dogs! 7) Don’t not move the toy from side to side or up and down while the dog is at the other end of it. The dog can do this, but the human is only basically holding the toy. Aggressive movement of the toy by the human while the dog has the toy in his mouth, can cause injury to the dog’s neck, back, jaw or teeth.